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"The intriguing thing about the effects of censoring information is not that audience members want to have the information more than they did before; that seems natural. Rather, it is that they come to believe in the information more, even though they haven’t received it." - mind-blowing, see below. Hey guys, I've now finished 10 books on my 2024 finish-my-half-read-books-plus-some-new-ones challenge. I'm currently reading Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini, PhD. I am learning many interesting things... far too many to try to summarise here (tbh it's probably a book that needs to be read multiple times for it all to stick.) However there's one finding I read and immediately thought to share with you, re the psychological effects of censoring information. FASCINATING. See below. Psychological Reactance: I wonder whether the journalists censoring certain presidential candidates in the US might change their strategy if they understood the above... This week on Growing Up with Delia Burgess This interview made it obvious to me why there are so many films about boxing...such an exciting sport! (at any level...) Joshua was describing some of his first fights as an amateur in Naples (before he moved to London and turned pro). One had a crazy back story where he was fighting a guy who had just come out of prison having killed one of his best friends brother (who was also a boxer) 20 years before. (It gets pretty emotional when the friend turns up on his doorstep the morning of the fight with his dead brothers' boots for Joshua to wear.) Many more exciting elements to the story too... a Ghanan mum who doesn't want him to fight, injuries, a Neapolitan fish market, finding God, classic Italian corruption and a bit of racism mixed in. And to think this all came about because the F45 Battersea class was booked out so I went to the boxing gym next door instead :) Previous editions here. Forwarded this and want to subscribe? Click here. |
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"Understanding what is “wrong” with people currently is more a question of the mindset of the practitioner (and of what insurance companies will pay for) than of verifiable, objective facts." - Bessel van der Kolk Hey guys, A couple of hot takes below, be warned! (Simpsons quote in title, I basically have become Reverend Lovejoy's wife since speaking to Erica Komisar on the podcast last week (see below) so really stepping into it) First up from The Body Keeps the Score, by Dutch psychiatrist,...
"I always try to lead with my curiosity and if there's something I'm passionate about, to see where it takes me, to explore it without any preconceived notions, without any expectation of results, without saying it has to be this way." - musical prodigy on the pod this week (see below) Hey guys, Welcome to this week's slightly disjointed newsletter. Let's dive in:Quote I'm thinking about, from the book I'm currently reading (The Body Keeps the Score, Bessel van der Kolk) "Isolating oneself...
Guys hi!I hope you didn't miss me too much last week (although the previous week was quite lengthy. If you missed it catch up here: Growing Up: ending social anxiety + let's talk about race (in a not annoying way) + Alzheimer's) This week is just a quick one! Although I do have two podcast eps to tell you about... But first: UNIDENTIFIED GUEST Ah, but we die to each other daily.What we know of other people Is only our memory of the moments During which we knew them. And they have changed...