Growing Up: how to be likeable, advice from Jordan Peterson & melb visit


The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time is today.

Twice in four days! To what do we owe the pleasure. Hopefully this hasn't pushed your inboxes over the edge…

I have a time sensitive announcement, hence sending this early (see below).

But first…

I saw this on Twitter:

Three things that will make you 5x more likable:

  1. Never complain about anything
  2. Stop blaming other people or circumstances for your current situation
  3. Don’t criticise anyone ever (esp to other people when they aren’t around)

(From Nick Huber @sweatystartup)

And if you don’t care about being liked, the same probably applies wrt being respected.

This week on Growing Up with Delia Burgess
Ep. 77 - Delia & Neil: construction, life purpose, breakups & depression

Neil and I recorded this episode in August 2022, before I’d published the first Growing Up episode…

There’s a long preamble where I also share some advice Jordan Peterson gave me last week. It probably applies to everyone.

Enjoy xx

P.S. Growing Up in Melbourne: A reader of this newsletter once suggested that I host a gathering for all my “Melbourne fans” when I’m next visiting. Well I’m going to be in Melbourne in two weeks, and it’s happening! As hanging out with me probably isn’t the most exciting thing in the world, I’m also inviting previous podcast guests. So if you’re around and are interested in coming by, send me a message and I’ll make sure you get the info. Look forward to catching up.

xx Delia

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